1) I used FEL-PRO MS98014T for the lower intake gaskets, they are the metal re-designed. The kit included the black rtv, but I pitched that and used Permatex 82180 Ultra Black
2) I used Dorman metal coolant elbows (DORMAN 47065HP) with the O-rings that came on them. Based on how they installed, I would NOT, NOT, NOT recommend them. I should have spent a little more and got AC Delco. The ones I installed (Dorman) did not fit well. They were TOO TIGHT. If I ever have to redo them, I'm going for the AC Delco for sure. I lubed the elbow parts (the inside of the tensioner ports, and the elbows with coolant (the prestone universal yellow). That part worked out well. The elbows would have been too tight regardless of whatever I used for lube.
3) I cleaned the fuel injectors (the business ends) with brake cleaner, then for lubing the rest of the O-rings (injectors, pcv valve, MAP, brake vacuum hose) I used SIL-GLYDE brake lube.
not gobs, just enough to do the job. ,
4) I used Permatex Dialectric on the sparky boots. I put a pea-sized little gob inside the boot at the very opening, then I took a small screwdriver and spread the dielectric grease around and around the inside of the boot to just the first 1/4" or so, of the inside of the boot. Being careful to not push it near the metal connector.
5) I used ACDELCO 41-101 (Iridium), for the sparkies. And the sparky-wires - ACDELCO 9746DD (Standard Replacement) Gold