Ok, let's review for a moment.
You are getting a P0304 (Cylinder #4 misfire) code. #4 spark plug is a dry, sooty black, suggesting it is running rich or not getting a consistent spark. Once the engine goes into closed loop, the right bank short term fuel trim goes down to -50%, and the right bank long term ft drops to -15%. The Bank 2 O2 sensor voltage stays high at all times, around .75 volts. All the above suggests at least one cylinder in the right bank is running rich and the PCM is attempting to compensate by leaning out the right bank. A scope verifies that the PCM is properly modulating the injector pulse width compared to an adjacent cylinder.
The problem was not noticed until after you changed the ignition wires, plugs, and
intake gaskets. There is a possibility that the #4 wire was damaged when pinched by the AC compressor, but you replaced both the #4 wire and the sooty plug again with no improvement.
Other things you have tried replacing include the TPS (had some rough spots) and injectors (some leaked), Opti (rotor was crumbling) and the O2 sensor (just in case). You also checked the compression and fixed various vacuum hose leaks.
I really don't think there is a problem with the PCM. Everything points to the PCM working properly -- it is reading a rich mixture (as confirmed by the sooty plug and reaction to a vacuum leak), it is apparently outputting the correct signal to the injectors.
I wonder if the vacuum leaks you fixed were (in some freak way) actually compensating for whatever is causing the current rich condition.
Disconnecting the hose from the PCV valve (again, an introduced vacuum leak) smooths out the idle , makes the miss disappear, but I don't believe you have posted any O2 or fuel trim statistics when running with the PCV disconnected. And I don't see that you replaced the PCV valve with a new one for the RMW -- you mention that you had accidentally installed one for a different car (Regal?) and swapped in the original RMW valve again.
I think I'd look very closely at the PCV system. The PCV valve has to regulate the amount of flow depending on vacuum and if it's excessive, it acts like a vacuum leak. Presumably the opposite is true too -- if it's clogged it might cause a richer than normal condition? So I'd try replacing the valve and carefully check both the hose from the PCV valve to the manifold and also the air supply hose -- from the
intake to the engine. The PCV valve can't flow any air unless there's a supply of fresh air going into the engine.
The only problem with this theory is it does not explain why only #4 would be affected.