Disable the ignition or fuel pump by removing the appropriate relay or fuse, and then with the help of a second person, measure the battery voltage while the helper attempts to start the engine. Note the voltage reading while the engine cranks. Now, have the helper turn the headlights on and remeasure the battery voltage while the helper attempts to start the engine. Note the voltage reading while the engine cranks with the headlights on.
Now with the ignition or fuel pump relay or ignition restored, have your helper start the engine, turn the headlights on and have him turn the HVAC fan to the highest speed setting. Now put your Digital Multi-Meter on the AC volts function and choose either the lowest AC voltage range or the millivolt range. Place the negative test lead on the negative battery cable and then place the positive test lead on the battery output terminal on the alternator (the one under the rubber boot on the back of the alternator. Note that voltage reading (if the DMM is on the say 1 volt scale, you should see something like 0.0259 volts, or if the DMM has a mV scale you should see something like 25.9 mV).
Finally, please report the two cranking voltages and the voltage you see at the battery terminal on the alternator.